Here are several verses worth considering from Proverbs 25:
"It is the glory of God to conceal things, but the glory of kings is to search things out." Proverbs 25:2
Man delights in discovery, but remember that God keeps some things hidden. If we could figure all of Him out, what kind of God would He be?
"A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver. Like a gold ring or an ornament of gold is a wise reprover to a listening ear." -Proverbs 25:11-12 ESV
I've always been fond of the picture the first simile creates. The second one goes along with the verse from Proverbs 24 about listening to wise counsel.
"Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest is a faithful messenger to those who send him; he refreshes the soul of his masters.
Like clouds and wind without rain is a man who boasts of a gift he does not give." Proverbs 25:13-14 ESV
I bet you've already found this true---loyal friends refresh the spirit, and those who merely talk a good game become discouragements.
"Whoever sings songs to a heavy heart is like one who takes off a garment on a cold day, and like vinegar on soda." -Proverbs 25: 20 ESV
Maybe this is part of the problem with things like Facebook and Instagram--because there is little context, those who over share or only share their joys can come across as braggarts to those who may be struggling. I'm not saying it's always the case or to never post, but we should be sensitive to each other's moods and burdens. Paul say it a little differently in Romans:
"Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion." -Romans 12:15-16
Be a good friend: humble, compassionate, authentic. A good friend can't fix everything or even most things, but you always leave better for being in their presence.
xoxo
Mom
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